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    Ive been talking to a female friend of mine and shes kinda pissed at her BF for hanging out with alot of female friends. EVen though she tells me that she doesnt believe that there's any hanky panky going on. BUt, shes still feels uncomfy with him hanging out with girls.

    So, What do you ladies think? DO you think she's a paranoid nut or Can you relate to her situation?...Aso, Would you be mad at your BF if he hangs out with alot of girls?

    Im on the phone trying to console the poor girl as we speak.I Cant wait to get some feedback from my TBF girls.

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    My bf doesn't hang out with girls, although he has female "friends" at work. I'm not threatened by them. But, if he was going to the movies or mall with them...then I'd be mad.

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    I think it's fine for people to have friends of the opposite sex. But if he's spending a lot of time with his female friends or doing things with them that he should be doing with his girlfriend then I don't blame her for being upset. She should talk to him and tell him how she feels about him hanging out with a lot of female friends.

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    Hmm... I guess it depends on the situation. Does he go out with these girls in a group of friends? Or is there lots of one-on-one time spent together? I wouldn't really have a problem if they were all just part of a group. KWIM? I had a lot of guy friends when I was in high school and some of them hung around for awhile after we graduated. Mr BRS never seemed to mind. Actually, he liked it when I would hang out with them because they could take me to movies that Mr BRS didn't want to see. LOL!

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    Hmm... I guess it depends on the situation. Does he go out with these girls in a group of friends? Or is there lots of one-on-one time spent together? I wouldn't really have a problem if they were all just part of a group. KWIM? I had a lot of guy friends when I was in high school and some of them hung around for awhile after we graduated. Mr BRS never seemed to mind. Actually, he liked it when I would hang out with them because they could take me to movies that Mr BRS didn't want to see. LOL!


    Her BF hangs with the girls in groups. Never one on one (thats what he told her anyways). I dont know...FOr me personally, This is kinda tough.

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    My BF doesn't have female friends outside of work. I don't think I'd appreciate it if he hung out with female friends without me. I think it's a respect thing for me.

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    This may not be logical, but I don't mind at all when DH spends time with longtime female friends that he's known and been friends with since way before we met (like, high school friends etc). But, most of the "newer" female friends he has are spouses/GFs of friends or coworkers and we typically hang out in groups or couples. I would not like it if he became friends with a female and started hanging out with her.

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    My best friend, from 8th grade on, was male. I used to hang with the guys much more than my girlfriends. I don't see a problem with it. The only time she should have issue with it is if he is drinking and slips. But if that happens, they weren't meant to be anyway. A true male will stand true. Doesn't matter who the outside influences are.
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    I don't think it's a problem if it's a group of girls. But if it's impeding with time he spends with his gf, then that's an issue.

    I'm not fussed about DH's girl friends. He had a girl friend whom he had known since he was 17 who had moved here from the UK briefly and didn't know anyone. When she was here, he did go out for a quick drink with her a few times after work. I don't mind at all, in fact I would rather not go out with them cause she use to mourn too much everything! And tonight, he's catching up with another old friend who's travelling through. I'm not fussed cause I trust him and he knows if he messed up, I will take everything and destroy everything else. LOL!

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    Great advises girls. Thank you.





    Umm Arianne's last statement kinda scared me. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by THE-GUY View Post
    Great advises girls. Thank you.





    Umm Arianne's last statement kinda scared me. lol
    A guy need to be aware that there are repercussions!!

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    I've always thought that if there is something that one partner is doing that is bothersome to the other partner, then there is a problem.
    Sometimes, even though it doesn't make sense, your partner's feelings are more important than what you want to do for fun.
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    I have a question also.... i REALLY like this guy, but he is such a player, and always flirts with everyone! Especially me, so I know he likes me, but he is about 4 inches shorter than me, and we argue all the time, people say we're like a married couple. LOL
    UGH!!!!
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    ^^^ What does your gut tell you?? Ask yourself if you think if it's really going to work between the two of you if you were to date (and answer it honestly). I bet you already know the answer.


    If not......Ill tell you........














    ITS NOT GOING TO WORK! SOunds like he's still in party mode. Just because he flirts with you doesnt mean he likes you. I bet every girl he flirts with probably think the same as you do. SOmetimes, guys will say whatever it takes to get into your pants. (sorry, Its true....).

    ALso, My rule of thumb is...If you argue more than "normal". Then chances are it's probably not going to work.

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