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    Default Re: Serious family matter...what to do

    Aww I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. I think personally I would have to speak to my Dad about it, especially as your Mam doesn't know. My Mam went through a similar thing, but after her Dad had died. I think maybe approach it as you've gained two siblings, once you get over the betrayal I think that's ultimately how you'll feel anyway. if your Mam has said that she wouldn't be surprised about your Dad having other kids then maybe it'd be best that she knew about it? Obviously you know your family best, but sometimes the best thing is always the truth?

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    Default Re: Serious family matter...what to do

    like everyone else suggested,

    talk to your dad, told him that the girl came to you but you afraid there is nothing more you can do. Because that's the issue between him and your mum. HE just have to resolves it, and if you are ok to accepts the sibs, tell him that you will support him in front of mum.

    I really dont think you should be to truth teller in this matter, that will hurt your mum so bad that she doesn't deserve the truth your dad?? JMO...
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    I would still talk to the little girl. Imagine what she goes through, and it's not her fault she exists and that you share a dad. I would be nice to her, or tell her you are pregnat and very tired lately and will call her when you have your energy back.

    Good luck with all of this!

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    Default Re: Serious family matter...what to do

    Quote Originally Posted by NashvilleDiva_83 View Post
    I would still talk to the little girl. Imagine what she goes through, and it's not her fault she exists and that you share a dad. I would be nice to her, or tell her you are pregnat and very tired lately and will call her when you have your energy back.

    Good luck with all of this!
    yea I might just do that... In all honesty, I'm not mad at them or anything, I've sort of come to terms with accepting it just because they're already there and true its not their fault....

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    thanks everyone for all your kind words... I'm so glad for tbf... thanks again jen!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NashvilleDiva_83 View Post
    I would still talk to the little girl. Imagine what she goes through, and it's not her fault she exists and that you share a dad. I would be nice to her, or tell her you are pregnat and very tired lately and will call her when you have your energy back.

    Good luck with all of this!
    Yeah, she's probably excited to have a big sister.
    Wow, though. I'm sorry you have to go through that, and good luck with everything.

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    hope everything works out. *hugs*

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