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    Default Re: help, feeling sad, have the urge to splurge :(

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    Default Re: help, feeling sad, have the urge to splurge :(

    Quote Originally Posted by this1chick View Post

    well, i posted about this before (what's making me feel down) so it's sort of the same thing, it's the rollercoaster emotions of a breakup. unfortunately, lrc123, one of the things you listed is what i don't currently have -- a loving husband (or boyfriend, in this case, who happens to be my DS's father). he moved out about 1 1/2 months ago but we still have daily contact on account of our son. he's been extremely rude and a downright jerk to me on occasions. i guess i can't really expect for him to be super nice to me since he is the one who moved out. but there is a certain disrespect that really angers me and then after i get over the anger it's sadness. i'm trying to pull it together... but almost all of my handbag purchases occurred in this span of 1 1/2 months.

    i didn't buy anything from this urge today / yesterday (whenever i posted this)... i still want to though. but i've just been spending the day cleaning the house so i feel somewhat better.

    thanks for all the thoughts ladies... it really makes me feel supported.

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    Default Re: help, feeling sad, have the urge to splurge :(

    Quote Originally Posted by lrc123 View Post
    Oh, i'm sorry! I didn't mean to make you feel bad. I hope you find a loving and caring bf.
    hehe no worries, things will work out eventually... i mean, in my life. haha. i have to have faith in that b/c my life has been a soap opera, i swear!
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    Quote Originally Posted by this1chick View Post
    hehe no worries, things will work out eventually... i mean, in my life. haha. i have to have faith in that b/c my life has been a soap opera, i swear!
    what's important is you've got a beautiful little boy that loves and adores you.... and that will make everything worthwhile

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    Default Re: help, feeling sad, have the urge to splurge :(

    Quote Originally Posted by this1chick View Post
    bRs that just totally made me LOL!

    well, i posted about this before (what's making me feel down) so it's sort of the same thing, it's the rollercoaster emotions of a breakup. unfortunately, lrc123, one of the things you listed is what i don't currently have -- a loving husband (or boyfriend, in this case, who happens to be my DS's father). he moved out about 1 1/2 months ago but we still have daily contact on account of our son. he's been extremely rude and a downright jerk to me on occasions. i guess i can't really expect for him to be super nice to me since he is the one who moved out. but there is a certain disrespect that really angers me and then after i get over the anger it's sadness. i'm trying to pull it together... but almost all of my handbag purchases occurred in this span of 1 1/2 months.

    i didn't buy anything from this urge today / yesterday (whenever i posted this)... i still want to though. but i've just been spending the day cleaning the house so i feel somewhat better.

    thanks for all the thoughts ladies... it really makes me feel supported.

    I was wondering if the two of you were still separated, but didn't want to ask.
    Yeah retail therapy can be amazing but if you are putting it all on CC's then that can be very bad once the payments come due. I think you did a good thing by cutting them up!!
    I am happy to hear that you felt better after cleaning the house...for some reason that always works for me as well.

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    Default Re: help, feeling sad, have the urge to splurge :(

    thanks lovelies~

    ideally i'd like it if things worked out w/ my DS's father but for now i just have to let him be... he's going through some internal issues that he won't really admit to yet and i just sort of have to bite my tongue and bear this...

    i have to say that i might get another bag.......... :x it's like my HG bag and it's a special order only but we will see. if i do, i'll almost for sure sell or return my Dark Brown Nikki...
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    Default Re: help, feeling sad, have the urge to splurge :(

    I do the exact same thing when I'm down... but you've got to hang in there, like everyone has said, the euphoria from getting a new bag (or whatever) is only temporary, and then you're left with the bill from that purchase. Which sucks even more!

    But if you do a trade off type of thing where you sell a bag to fund another, like you mentioned, then I don't see the harm in that... right?

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    Default Re: help, feeling sad, have the urge to splurge :(

    Quote Originally Posted by daisydeadpetals View Post
    I do the exact same thing when I'm down... but you've got to hang in there, like everyone has said, the euphoria from getting a new bag (or whatever) is only temporary, and then you're left with the bill from that purchase. Which sucks even more!

    But if you do a trade off type of thing where you sell a bag to fund another, like you mentioned, then I don't see the harm in that... right?

    i'd like to think it's okay plus i got a great deal on it in the first place so i could still sell it at a discount off MSRP and make a little bit of a profit to help my bills.
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    Well then there you go! That's a great idea, IMO, to help fill that void (as temporary as it may be, but I know the feeling all too well) AND with the profit, pay a bit off your bills!!!

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