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    Default How to be single?

    My boyfriend and I ended things, and I've been doing a lot of thinking.
    I've come to the conclusion that I don't really know how to be single, if that makes any sense.
    I've always had a bf, I'll get out of a relationship and jump right into a new one.

    So, I was just wondering if anyone has any "tips" for me? One of my guy friends said I need to talk to girls about all of this.... So, I figured i'd turn to yall, since I dont hang out with a lot of girls.
    Thanks :)

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    Default Re: How to be single?

    How to be single?

    It really depends on how you're feeling inside? I had a boyfriend for nearly seven years and we ended it last summer ... so at first it was awkward but honestly, being single is a lot of fun and has a lot of advantages once you get over the he is gone kind of thing.

    I've found there's a lot of freedom to being single ... I mean you can date anyone you want, go out, and not have to think about what he is thinking.

    Honestly, at this point, just do what feels right. Whether that means getting closer with your girlfriends, or going out and looking for Mr. Right. Only you know what is right for you right now.

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    Default Re: How to be single?

    i am not the best person to give advice on this as i haven't been single in over 4 years, but i would suggest you do everything & anything that you want to do. do things alone & be with your friends & family & just enjoy your life. you need to find contentment in your single life & with yourself before you are with somebody else. do you think you guys will be getting back together? my best advice is do not jump into a relationship with anybody else, that is probably the worst thing you could do IMO! cheer up & enjoy your time to yourself! cry until you can't cry anymore & never cry over him again!

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    The Bag Star daniellelynn's Avatar
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    Default Re: How to be single?

    Yeah, I don't wanna be in another relationship, and no, i dont think well be getting back together..... Its been a few weeks, so Im pretty over the crying stage, thankfully. I just cant really remember being single. Its a weird feeling.
    Thanks for the advice girls :)
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    Default Re: How to be single?

    I know what you mean!

    ABout 2.5 years ago I broke up with my boyfriend of like 3.5 years, and I was like "what do I do now?" It's weird not having that one person always around, but then you realize that you don't have to have someone around to do things with. There's always friends ad family. Now you just go out and hang out with them. Also buy a really big stuffed animal and sleep with it, haha, then you won't feel alone at night!
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    Default Re: How to be single?

    Quote Originally Posted by daniellelynn View Post
    My boyfriend and I ended things, and I've been doing a lot of thinking.
    I've come to the conclusion that I don't really know how to be single, if that makes any sense.
    I've always had a bf, I'll get out of a relationship and jump right into a new one.

    So, I was just wondering if anyone has any "tips" for me? One of my guy friends said I need to talk to girls about all of this.... So, I figured i'd turn to yall, since I dont hang out with a lot of girls.
    Thanks :)
    Your guy friend gave you a cop out answer!

    I have been married for almost four years. Prior to that, I was married for two years with only 6 weeks between marriages, and during that six weeks I was dating my husband.

    So....I haven't been single in a long time so I understand how scary it could feel. Just be yourself...do things that make you happy. Take a good class at the gym, read a few books...do whatever just makes you smile.

    You won't stay single for long...unless, of course you find that you like it!
    I am sure though you won't stay single long

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    Default Re: How to be single?

    Quote Originally Posted by daniellelynn View Post
    I've always had a bf, I'll get out of a relationship and jump right into a new one.
    Hearing things like that always worries me. I have two friends that jump from relationship to relationship, and have barely been alone (one has been single for maybe two months at most since she was 17 i think), and neither of them seem to be comfortable with who they are(and one always dates guys that are wrong/bad for her, but anyway..). I'm not saying you're like this, or anything(i dont know you like that). I think it's good for anyone to spend a good amount of time by themselves, ya know? Really, you'll just have a lot more time to hang out with friends and do things you like, maybe things your ex never wanted to do, etc. Just have fun with it.

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    Default Re: How to be single?

    Being Single is not something that you can learn. It just comes naturally after being alone for awhile. You'll get use to doing things on your own after a bit. Only time can teach you on how to be "single".

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    Default Re: How to be single?

    I like being single now. It;s lke having time to know yourself better.

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    Default Re: How to be single?

    Quote Originally Posted by paula View Post
    It;s lke having time to know yourself better.

    I love spending time to get to "know" myself more....

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