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    He called me yesterday crying hysterical.. that he made a huge mistake.. and how he messed up really bad. Now my Mother hates him.. and doesn't want him any part of me. I'm devastated.. and I'm clueless on what to do. I was fine.. till he called me. And now I don't know what to do with my Mom. She says "He is not coming back into your life.. I don't want to see you get hurt again." I'm so lost.. been crying all day.

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    Awww. Marissa that is hard, I've been there and took him back, we went on a break for like another little bit, but then we got back together for good. He felt horrible and appologized, and I let him back no questions asked because I know it would make me feel better. Its tough but go with your heart. He may have just panicked like my boyfriend, and when it sinks in and they realize what they've lost they go berzerk and understand they screwed up bad.have a real good talk with him and really try to scope it out! I know its really hard, I'm here for you girl! <3

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    Aw Dani I'm glad your situation turned out for the best!!

    I know this sucks Marissa, but sometimes (not all the time) when people break up it's for a reason and that means you're not supposed to be with them.

    I understand that he may be regretting it, but he should have know that he loves you and can't live without you before he broke your heart. I think you need to really think about what you're going to do. It would be easy to just run back to him and get back together, and don't just do it because you miss having someone in your life. Think about if he would do this again to you, and break your heart again. You said that your relationship was really good before you broke up, so I would take that into consideration.

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    Hey Marissa,
    I don't know you that good but I would not take him back
    He made his decision and who knows if he will do things like that again?

    I went through all this sh... also and I made my decision that he IS history! Eventhough he called and and was crying like a baby I did not take him back. It was very hard and almost broke my heart but now I have the bf I deserve .

    And this jerk is still running around and chasing every skirt he is seeing.

    Just listen what your heart and brain is telling you (sometimes Moms are right!)

    Hope that everything turns out good for you whatever decision you will take
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    Thanks girls.. ya it's hard. Stopped crying.. thank God. It's like.. I love him.. but then I'm like.. Do I really need a BF? I'm so busy with music.. and I won't even be here in December.. I'm off to NY. It's like apart of me wants to be with him.. and apart of me is like.. do I really need this? This might sound shallow and horrible.. but when you are in the entertainment industry.. and trying to pursue it as a professional goal.. people just don't understand what you go through.. and that you simply have no time for them. I remember I was recording before.. (I was with my EX-BF) and he would not stop calling me. I was at the studio for about 20 hours straight.. and we had a fight. I was like "I do not have time for you today... music is more important than you." He couldn't deal with that.. so we broke up. It's hard to be in a relationship with someone that isn't in the industry.. because they simply do not understand the work load you have.

    I was in NY for a commercial for Sunsilk shampoo (if you watch Gossip Girls.. you saw me)... I was at the studio in Chelsea filming for about 8 hours straight. Had the makeup artist and hair stylist working on me forever.. then going over lines.. etc. The guy that called me crying the other day.. would not stop calling me and texting me. And he got upset.. when I was like.. "I do not have time for you.. I'm in the middle of a shoot.. and at 7 PM I gotta go to times square and film.. then I got a dinner event tomorrow." He got so pissed!!!! It's so hard.. my heart is torn on what to do. Ultimately though.. I'm really too busy for a BF.

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    Hey Marissa,
    you are back and start to reflect what is good for you! That is a good thing even if it does not feel as such!

    As your Mom said: There are plenty fish in the sea!

    Once you are ready for a (new) bf you will realize it!

    Even if I don't know you personal I give you a virtual hug
    Welcome back to the real life!
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