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    So, Im having this debate and I need some answers or opinions. The question is...





    Can you be in a relationship where there will be NO SEX involved??.....EVER!!

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    Default Re: Survey (I need as many answers as possible!!)

    No doll, there's just something wrong all together with that hope, or situation if you're already there. Sex is part of a relationship, no ways around it. But can you elaborate a tad more on what this arrangement is?
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    Hm...well sex (protected and in a commited relationship) is healthy...and human nature. I've never heard of someone NEVER having it in their relationship.

    I think it'd be hard unless both people in the relationship doesn't want to ever have sex.

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    well it depends.. some people believe in sex after marriage.. but that's very RARE nowadays, unless the girl or guy is an old fashioned Catholic that wouldn't give up their virginity... but EVER meaning like for eternity is impossible... unless the other person swore to celibacy. lol

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    Default Re: Survey (I need as many answers as possible!!)

    Ever? As in never? Sex is part of a relationship. I've never heard of any relationships with zero sex.. unless they are waiting for marriage or something.

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    Default Re: Survey (I need as many answers as possible!!)

    Anyways, There isnt any kind of arrangemt per se. Im just having this debate with this girl Im dating. I dont know how this even came up!! But, she asked if I would stay in a relationship with her if there is no sex involved....and I didnt say "yes" or "no". All I said was it would be VERY hard. Then she freakin got all pissed at me!!

    She was like "Then sex is more important to you than me?...and you would rather choose sex over me Blah blah blah".


    SHEEESH!!!



    Ps- Ok...she wanted me to ask this: If your Bf one day told you that he didnt want to have sex anymore...would you still stay with him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by THE-GUY View Post
    Anyways, There isnt any kind of arrangemt per se. Im just having this debate with this girl Im dating. I dont know how this even came up!! But, she asked if I would stay in a relationship with her if there is no sex involved....and I didnt say "yes" or "no". All I said was it would be VERY hard. Then she freakin got all pissed at me!!

    She was like "Then sex is more important to you than me?...and you would rather choose sex over me Blah blah blah".


    SHEEESH!!!
    hey sorry hon but the girl you're dating sounds like she's a bit narrow-minded or something... i would presume most girls are open in this kind of conversation, if you don't mind me asking is she religious or something?

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    Well, I wouldn't worry about sex unless you BOTH are ready, ya know? Just let her know...you're ready when she is. If that's the case.

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    ahh. sounds to me like she just wants to get to know you a little bit more. its probably really important to her and she may want to make sure that "you are the one" (i know that sounds a little corny)

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    Quote Originally Posted by THE-GUY View Post
    Ps- Ok...she wanted me to ask this: If your Bf one day told you that he didnt want to have sex anymore...would you still stay with him?
    there might be a very good reason for that, if he just felt like he didn't want to anymore then screw him lol

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    Ps- Ok...she wanted me to ask this: If your Bf one day told you that he didnt want to have sex anymore...would you still stay with him?
    well my bf and i have been dating for 6 years and if he ever said that to me i would probably think something was wrong with him.. or me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    well my bf and i have been dating for 6 years and if he ever said that to me i would probably think something was wrong with him.. or me
    I'd think the same (not about YOU, Jennifer!!).

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    Default Re: Survey (I need as many answers as possible!!)

    GUY - how long have you and your GF been dating?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    well my bf and i have been dating for 6 years and if he ever said that to me i would probably think something was wrong with him.. or me



    That's not the point....The question was would you still be with him??

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    Not Long. New relationship. Maybe it's a Swede thing (I dunno lol)

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