Thread: Survey (I need as many answers as possible!!)

^^^ ROFL!!!

well, you should just be honest with her. tell her what you'd do since she is trying to get an answer out of you.

GUY, if you don't mind me asking, are you really into her?

Well Guy, I think you can safely tell her that we think she's being unreasonable with this question. I can understand her maybe trying to find out if you're interested in more than just sex... but getting pissy when you refused to answer a dumb question that was really an entrapment is a little bit overboard.

You should just talk to her...and tell her how you feel!

Either she's been married to you throughout several reincarnations or she's full of bolony

Brs: Your hubby is funny

Originally Posted by gizmo

Either she's been married to you throughout several reincarnations or she's full of bolony

Brs: Your hubby is funny

Yeah, I know. One of the things I like about him. He refuses to be baited with questions like that. Also, if I say I love him more then he'll just reply "Uh huh". Nope, he won't play that game.

Originally Posted by THE-GUY

So, Im having this debate and I need some answers or opinions. The question is...





Can you be in a relationship where there will be NO SEX involved??.....EVER!!

As in a marriage? No. I think making love is a fundamental part of a marriage. It's the time when you feel the closest, the most vulnerable. We all need that.

Originally Posted by THE-GUY

Anyways, There isnt any kind of arrangemt per se. Im just having this debate with this girl Im dating. I dont know how this even came up!! But, she asked if I would stay in a relationship with her if there is no sex involved....and I didnt say "yes" or "no". All I said was it would be VERY hard. Then she freakin got all pissed at me!!

She was like "Then sex is more important to you than me?...and you would rather choose sex over me Blah blah blah".


SHEEESH!!!



Ps- Ok...she wanted me to ask this: If your Bf one day told you that he didnt want to have sex anymore...would you still stay with him?

Call me a prude, but I don't think you should be having a sexual relationship unless you are married or close to it. Sex messes things up, makes you more irrational about the relationship and where you are going with it. Sex means a completley different thing to males -vs- females and it always complicates things.

ITA. That's my point exactly. I much rather be direct.

Originally Posted by THE-GUY

Well i did try to turn the question around on her...I was like:

Me: Would you stay with me if I was impotent and cant get it up for the rest of my life?

Her: Yes...

Me: Would you stay with me if I had no arms or legs? and had to take care of me for the rest of your life?..

Her: Yes..

Me: Ok...would you stay with me If I was old and senile and I poop in my diaper that you had to change?! HAHA GOTCHA?!..

Her: You got nothing. Cause I would stay with you..

Her: SO anser my damn question! Would you leave me if there was no sex in our relationship?..

Me: Hmm...Ummm..Well...That's a really hard question.

Her: Quiet....Then the PMS like moodyness kicked in.

Me: Let me go ask the girls in TBF about this.

Okay, so you guys have been dating for how long? I'm sorry, but these are stupid questions and she is full of it. She would so NOT stay with you if all or any of these things happened. I hate that cheesy questioning crap. You don't get into those feelings until you know that this person is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. I swore a vow to my husband to love, honor and cherish him through sickness and in health, etc... So yes, I would stay with him regardless of the situation. But when you are in a new relationship, to say that you would stay with someone during extenuating circumstances is just plain bs.

Yeah!! Maeveyblue rocks!

Originally Posted by THE-GUY

Call me naive ..But, I do believe her. Whether what she said was true or not..I dunno. We've been friends for 3 years and just started officially dating for a few months now. She actually left her family from Sweden to move here to be with me. So...I guess its kinda serious?

If she left Sweden to be with you then she is expecting a ring in the near future. Are you ready for that?