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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    Quote Originally Posted by susieq View Post
    a note on Guy's suggestion - personally I wouldn't want him to tell me if he kissed another girl while we were dating. I think that while I would understand that people make mistakes - the knowledge of that would eat at me for a while. Ya know like even if I got over it - if we had a fight, I'm sure I'd bring it up just to use as "ammo".


    I dont want to sound like a A-hole. But, You shouldve thought of that before you had the makeout session. Even ,if he will be bitter and uses it as ammo in future fights,,,it's up to him. He needs to be the one making that choice and not you. What's done been done and now you just need to do the right thing and own up to it. HONESTY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN A RELATIONSHIP!! If you dont even have that...you have nothing.

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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    Susie,
    I know this first hand, I'm 39 and been there done that! I can tell you, if there's one tiny tiny bit of doubt, regardless of how nice the guy is, or how stable he might be, if it crushes your dreams, you will have regrets of what could've been ALLLL your life. Do what you feel like will make you happy. If you feel like settling down with this guy scares you, then you need to move on and not waste precious time, and get started making a life for yourself. If you don't noone else will do it for you!

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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    ya time with myself is needed. so we spoke again last night and i have two very positive job interviews in Portland later this week. he has already secured a place to move to in Vermont so I can move out to the West Coast on my own for a while and not worry about him getting stuck with the large rent. i think this will work out for the best. once we are on our own - even if it's just a month - i think it'll help us realize what the next logical step should be.

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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    good for you susie! like i said before, the time apart will make you realize if you truly do miss him and want to be with him or if you want to start a life on your own.

    wishlist..
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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    Good for you.. I'm still trying to come to grips of not being with my BF.. but I'm doing so much better. I too am concentrating on my career.. I won't lie.. I miss talking to him, and seeing him... but I think it's for the best.

    Good luck to you!!!!

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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    Quote Originally Posted by susieq View Post
    ya time with myself is needed. so we spoke again last night and i have two very positive job interviews in Portland later this week. he has already secured a place to move to in Vermont so I can move out to the West Coast on my own for a while and not worry about him getting stuck with the large rent. i think this will work out for the best. once we are on our own - even if it's just a month - i think it'll help us realize what the next logical step should be.
    good on u susie, you made the right decision and i'm sure its for the best... good luck on your interviews!!!

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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    a little update to the situation - he has been offered a job in Italy. Yep...so while he's a little flustered in trying to find out a way to get ME to go there. I said:
    "Listen, just go there for a year, get settled in, see if you like it all (location/job/people/etc). It's only an hour from Milan. Let's see where it all takes us, you know I'll visit you as much as possible (especially if it's in Italy)."

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    good for him, susie! hey, an excuse to go to italy, i'll take it!

    wishlist..
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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    OMG Susie!! It looks like things are falling into place. Sounds like the answer to your prayers...time for the both of you to think things out.


    Italy!:wub:
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    haha ya...italy I know!! we'll see what happens - he has the interview in 2 weeks.

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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    I just have to say Im jealous of you both. I never leave the state! Lol. Good Luck to him. I hope things work out the way you want them to.

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    Default Re: Speaking of break-ups... I need help

    Hey Susie,
    if you are into the fashion business Milan is one of the hottest places to be in Europe!
    Either Paris or Milan!
    You will love this place!
    I wish you all the best
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