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    *The TBF Elite* Marissa806's Avatar
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    My BF and I broke up today.. I didn't even see it COMING! I came home and my stuff was there. I got into a fight with him.. because he wouldn't spend 4th of July with me. He's is jewish... I'm catholic.. his mother never liked me.

    What do you do to get over a breakup? I'm completely heart broken....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marissa806 View Post
    My BF and I broke up today.. I didn't even see it COMING! I came home and my stuff was there. I got into a fight with him.. because he wouldn't spend 4th of July with me. He's is jewish... I'm catholic.. his mother never liked me.

    What do you do to get over a breakup? I'm completely heart broken....
    Know that God has a better plan for you and your life. Go grab a pint of your favorite ice-cream, a good movie and indulge. Tomorrow you can hold your head up high and know that you are still fabulous, beautiful, smart, wonderful and complete (without a man) He was lucky to have you and will never reach that level of perfection again.
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    Aw, I'm sorry Marissa...I hope you're ok. Break-ups are almost always tough to deal with. Stay strong and do not think about him!!

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    I'm devastated.. I can't stop crying. He was such a NICE guy.. I never thought he would turn up such a jerk!

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    Default Re: How to get over breakups?

    go to the airport, buy yourself a plane ticket to NYC, call your LVBff, and buy yourself the bag you want. Go out on the town with him, stay 2-3 days then come home. And don't take it personal - it sounds like you two had a lot of differences.

    Don't worry you are Gorgeous, smart, and talented ... You will find someone who will appreciate you and adore you forever.

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    yes we had differences.. I'm the type that likes to spend time with my significant other.. and he didn't. He was always too busy. But we loved each other.. I just don't get it. He said there was no other girl.. and that he was just going to keep being too busy. It's like Goodbye to loving you yesterday... and Hello today we are breaking up? I'm don't get it at all.

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    I know it hurts (I've been divorced) and you don't understand it right now and there's not much anyone can say to make you feel better ... It takes time.

    Is there anything you can do to feel better? Could you go to the gym or the beach or shopping? I always did best when I stayed busy. Could you book a spa treatment??

    Pamper yourself, allow yourself to grieve, and surround yourself with people that love you and are positive.

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    i hate breakups but i have learned the best thing to do is keep going dont let it stop you from doing your daily routine i mean sure you are going to be sad and it will be hard at first but as long as you keep yourself busy it will be easier also it doesnt hurt to buy a new bag lol

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    Hi Marissa, I'm really sorry to hear that... my heart goes out to you (and all the tBfers)... remember that we love you here and there's a lot more people who loves and cares for you... and ITA, God has a better plan for you, so just hang in there and things will be okay. :) When I broke up with my ex-bf I was devastated too, and then a few months later I met my husband, and life hasn't been better, it's perfect. :)

    so hon, you're a beautiful, talented girl... God will give you someone you deserve. and will love you so much more than he did. ok? and oh, we're here for you, remember that.

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    I'm sorry to hear that Marissa. Are you sure that this is a permanent break-up? Or could he have just been really angry? But you know, if its not meant to be then its not meant to be. So don't be too upset, like the other girls said above, you never know what great things could happen in the future. Maybe your dream guy is just waiting for you, right around the corner!

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    It's just so hard.. like I can't believe this. He said "I don't have time for you, I have a new job.. I have to concentrate on that." I can't believe him! I'm so heart broken.. I never expected this. I've been crying so much.. and I have to go to the studio tomorrow. My vocal cords are going to be shot... now I have a song to write about now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marissa806 View Post
    It's just so hard.. like I can't believe this. He said "I don't have time for you, I have a new job.. I have to concentrate on that." I can't believe him! I'm so heart broken.. I never expected this. I've been crying so much.. and I have to go to the studio tomorrow. My vocal cords are going to be shot... now I have a song to write about now.
    awww Marissa....it's okay... yea just use the experience to write a song. Don't let this hold you down...

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    I like that... "Don't let this hold you down".. that's my inspiriation.. using that to go off from.

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    Well atleast he didn't like say something that was really mean. Atleast he's letting you go so you can be happy since he won't have time for you, ya know?

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    he's a jerk for saying that he's breaking up with you because of a job... And like brs said... It might not be permanent. Just try not to let it interfere with YOUR career and try to relax your voice

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