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    Quote Originally Posted by JessLR View Post
    Well atleast he didn't like say something that was really mean. Atleast he's letting you go so you can be happy since he won't have time for you, ya know?
    Isn't him leaving my stuff at the front door, while I was at the beach with my family mean enough?

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    Quote Originally Posted by NashvilleDiva_83 View Post
    he's a jerk for saying that he's breaking up with you because of a job... And like brs said... It might not be permanent. Just try not to let it interfere with YOUR career and try to relax your voice
    I'm getting relaxed.. don't know what to do about my cords though.. they are so tense. I'm so over men for a while... I have to concentrate on music. My sound engineer is happy.. he's like "let all the anger, and emotion come out in your music".... he's coming over tomorrow to talk music.. we will see how that goes

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    maybe you will develop that raw, sexy raspy voice like Phoebe on friends... Remember when she got that bad cold and sang that song Smelly Cat??

    Hope all goes well with your sound engineer tomorrow

    Oh and feel free to have a bonfire and burn everything you have that belongs to that creep.

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    Oh I will.. and he's a member on here! He use to chit chat on here! Blah.. he doesn't deserve to be on the bag forum!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marissa806 View Post
    Isn't him leaving my stuff at the front door, while I was at the beach with my family mean enough?
    yea... it's pretty bad I mean be a man... right? Don't worry it's all for the better.

    Quote Originally Posted by Marissa806 View Post
    I like that... "Don't let this hold you down".. that's my inspiriation.. using that to go off from.

    cool. I hope you get your song done... and maybe it'll be a best seller then i can say, hey she's a tbfer!!! i know her!!! lol! i'll be so proud i reckon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marissa806 View Post
    It's just so hard.. like I can't believe this. He said "I don't have time for you, I have a new job.. I have to concentrate on that." I can't believe him! I'm so heart broken.. I never expected this. I've been crying so much.. and I have to go to the studio tomorrow. My vocal cords are going to be shot... now I have a song to write about now.

    Breakups can be so devastating. I think sometimes they can be harder than someone dying, because if you're still in love (or infatuated), you can't help to have the awareness that he's walking around, going on with life, without you. One day your paths are joined, the next day you find yourself on yours alone. It's a shock to the brain and it's normal to be upset. I believe that every pain has a quota of tears--cry them know and move on, or hold them back, get traumatized, and cry them later. Better to do it now. So cry your eyes out!! It's OK.

    And while we're in this topic: I suspect the reason he gave you for breaking up might not the real one. I mean, who ever tells the truth--nothing but the truth--when breaking up with someone? "It's me, not you," "I have to concentrate on my career," "I'm not ready for a relationship".... That may all be true, but it's rarely the whole reason. For example: What if your man has a tiny dxxck and you gave it a try but it just ain't working. Are you going to tell him that? --"Hey, Johnny, I don't think we should see each other anymore." --"Why?" he asks. --"Because you have a cashew between your legs and I you stink in bed." Yeah, right. People in this country are trained to be politically correct and mind other people's feelings. (That get's on my nerves a bit because I tend to tell it like it is and have little patience to tippy toe around.) In any case, job or no job, would you want to be with someone whom you have to persuade to be with you, or someone who's crazy about you?

    Feel the pain, my frrrriend, then you can move on. Only you know how much time you need, and what the tear quota is on this one. And do write about it. I write, and whenever I've had yet another romantic disappointment, I've written a killer poem or song about it and immediately felt like I got something worthy out of the experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marissa806 View Post
    Isn't him leaving my stuff at the front door, while I was at the beach with my family mean enough?
    I'm sorry - I forgot that part.

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    Awww... Compadre. :::HUGS::: I know breakups are tough, but hang in there sweetie. You're such a pretty girl... pick your head up high. He'll remember what he had and what he lost.

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    hear hear amiga!!

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    So sorry to hear that Marissa! I've been there before and it was so hard, same thing never saw it coming and I was devastated. All I did was cry for a while. It was so hard. I qot a new puppy to try to cheer me up. But you really need to keep yourself busy, really busy, even if it means going to the mall everyday just to walk around. Make sure you keep eating, I lost all appetite and barely ate ANYTHING be so depressed. And cling to your firends, this is when you need them. I went out with mine constantly, probably didn't deal with things the best way, but it helped.

    My boyfriend and I got back together in about 2 months but it was still the hardest thing. And he still says he doesn't know why he did that but it still scares me.

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    Aw Marissa I just read your thread I'm sorry about what happened hun! Everyone knows what you're going through, but it's hard for people to understand how you feel because it's happening to you at that moment. Honestly, nothing will make you feel better but time. It's just one of those things. Watching TV and movies will help because your mind will be on other things. I'm so sorry about what happened, but just remember that even though you're upset and hurt, don't say anything bad about him or your relationship, because you're just saying it out of anger. One day you guys will either get back together, or be friends, and you'll change you're mind about the bad things you thought of him. I hope you feel better soon.
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    So sorry to hear that Marissa! I've been there before and it was so hard, same thing never saw it coming and I was devastated. All I did was cry for a while. It was so hard. I qot a new puppy to try to cheer me up. But you really need to keep yourself busy, really busy, even if it means going to the mall everyday just to walk around. Make sure you keep eating, I lost all appetite and barely ate ANYTHING be so depressed. And cling to your firends, this is when you need them. I went out with mine constantly, probably didn't deal with things the best way, but it helped.

    My boyfriend and I got back together in about 2 months but it was still the hardest thing. And he still says he doesn't know why he did that but it still scares me.
    I can never get back to him for what he did. I think if I ever saw him again or talked to him.. I'd die. I can't stop crying as it is. Like literally... I cry.. then I'm fine and I think the crying is done.. then I cry some more.

    I feel like his parents made him leave me. They never liked me.. being that I was Catholic.. and he was Jewish. When I met them they wouldn't even say hi to me. I'm SO hurt.. I NEVER saw this coming....

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilstrlett View Post
    Aw Marissa I just read your thread I'm sorry about what happened hun! Everyone knows what you're going through, but it's hard for people to understand how you feel because it's happening to you at that moment. Honestly, nothing will make you feel better but time. It's just one of those things. Watching TV and movies will help because your mind will be on other things. I'm so sorry about what happened, but just remember that even though you're upset and hurt, don't say anything bad about him or your relationship, because you're just saying it out of anger. One day you guys will either get back together, or be friends, and you'll change you're mind about the bad things you thought of him. I hope you feel better soon.
    He asked me to be friends with him.. and I said I couldn't. I know.. with the way my heart feels... I can never be friends with him. This was all random... and the way he put my stuff in my front step.. was so embarassing. He didn't even call me.. I called him.. and the first words out of his mouth were... "This isn't working." Horrible feeling...

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    man ... Its rough but ask yourself if you would really want to spend the rest of your life with someone whose family won't even look at you? It would be so hard. Also, it looks like he has chosen his family over you, which is unacceptable as well.

    Remember the good times and try to keep your chin up and trust that this happened for a reason and someone better will come along!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marissa806 View Post
    I can never get back to him for what he did. I think if I ever saw him again or talked to him.. I'd die. I can't stop crying as it is. Like literally... I cry.. then I'm fine and I think the crying is done.. then I cry some more.

    I feel like his parents made him leave me. They never liked me.. being that I was Catholic.. and he was Jewish. When I met them they wouldn't even say hi to me. I'm SO hurt.. I NEVER saw this coming....
    I've had a couple of Jewish boyfriends, and I've found that most marry Jewish girls. But they do have fun with the others... It's just the way they do things. It's a tight group.
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