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    Default Re: Can I say that I hate my husband?

    I am SO SORRY! No girl deserves to be treated like that!

    Happy Anniversary! Even though I'm late.

    My Ex Ex BF was like that. I never got a gift, a happy birthday, a merry xmas, not even a happy v-day.. nothing... I broke up with him.. went out with another jerk... now I'm with someone that treats me good. Our first anniversary is coming up on August 20th.. which is also his bday. And my bday is the 6th. Men are just UGH when it comes to important days to us! I'm not really planning on anything.. so we shall see. I'm sorry he did that to you.You didn't deserve that!

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    Awww poor husband!
    He was out working hard to make a living and keeping the dough coming in that you love so much. Its not like the guy went partying with his friends or didnt come home, he was simply really tired and passed out. Really drunk and passed out? IDK...but I think the guys deserves a little love.
    He is your husband and he loves you and a DATE doesnt change that. Especially when you guys decided to celebrate this weekend. He might be putting in OT to get you something really special for this weekend. It just sucks to make a big deal out of something so small. He forgot- forgive him and get on to making up.
    NO DINNER? Hardly. Maybe a little attitude and a two minute speech on how much the day means to you because of what HE means to you...But I am confused.
    If it was important for him to remember your special anniversary then why did you not get his grub and be so unkind? If it was that important to you and if he means that much dont sweat the small stuff.
    But you have been married for years, so I am sure you know that already.
    Enjoy your anniversary this weekend.
    Smooch!
    P.S. Nobody knows your husband better than you do so although he might not be big in the gifts department or remembering important dates, there has got to be something about him that makes you stick around...
    Last edited by lisahmoore; June 18th, 2008 at 07:23 AM.

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    ^^^ Well, I wouldn't hold me breath about him having something special planned. Every time I think he might, I end up greatly disappointed. And the reason his food wasn't ready was because last time I had food waiting for him when he walked through the door, he complained that he wasn't that hungry yet. ::sigh:: I never can seem to win.
    But you're right about there being something about him that makes me stick around. He doesn't have the best work-ethic in the world, he complains that I don't clean enough (hello! I go to school and work!), he is very forgetful and sometimes thoughtless when it comes to "important" things... but he's still my sweetie. He can be very sweet when he puts his mind to it. I remember when he proposed to me, the sweetest thing he ever did. It took a lot of guts for him to do that, since he's not really that good about expressing his feelings (he gets that from his parents... no PDA there!). He put so much planning into it... down to every last detail. You know he had the ring for 4 months?! God, I could have killed him! LOL!

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    Lisa, I wouldn't say "poor husband"...he needs to be mindful of her feelings.

    bRs, if you love him, and you know how he is, then that is all that matters. At the end of the day you are the one who has to live with it all...in the sweetness and all the other stuff.

    What happens when you try to talk to him about stuff? His feelings, how he feels about the relationship, etc?

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    Well... mostly I just get a "Muv Mew". I don't know... he pretty much avoids the topic. He doesn't like to be cornered with questions like that.

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    Maybe you 2 should have like a nice night together or something?

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    Wait... I thought of something he does that I find really sweet. He calls me. Especially when I was going to class and he knew I was home for lunch during a certain time everyday between classes. He would call me on the phone while he was having lunch and we would, in a way, have lunch together.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JessLR View Post
    Maybe you 2 should have like a nice night together or something?
    That would be nice!

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    Maybe you could plan something nice for the both of you to do this weekend?? Something romantic, since he's not good with that sort of thing.

    Or give him a swift kick in the booty! LOL!
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    Hmm... let's see. I did want to go see a movie, but that's not very romantic is it? I'll have to pick the restaurant carefully. We took my parents out as a "Thank You" for taking care of the animals while we were in Florida. We went to my favorite restaurant, but we ended up having a terrible time. It seemed like everything was wrong, the food, the service, etc. And the best part of the evening? My husband was eating his salad only to find a big juicy dead fly squished onto a piece if lettuce. I don't think we'll be going back there any time soon.

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    Is there something you BOTH like doing? Could you set up a date that you would both enjoy?

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    Yeah...that's sweet he calls! I love when my bf calls me on his breaks at work!

    You two should do something romantic together...something you'll both enjoy.

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    Default Re: Can I say that I hate my husband?

    Quote Originally Posted by NashvilleDiva_83 View Post
    Lisa, I wouldn't say "poor husband"...he needs to be mindful of her feelings.

    bRs, if you love him, and you know how he is, then that is all that matters. At the end of the day you are the one who has to live with it all...in the sweetness and all the other stuff.

    What happens when you try to talk to him about stuff? His feelings, how he feels about the relationship, etc?
    I said "poor husband" because I felt kind of bad that TBF was downing this poor fella. My husband has made a few mistakes and I am sure that he will make a lot more but my happiness wont ever come down to a handbag or a gift or a gesture that he never does anyway....I imagine that even though he is no romantic that he does other great things...like keeping the gas on a full tank or being polite to her parents...IDK. SOMETHING, LOL!
    My husband on the other hand, is on a first name basis with my sales clerk at Gucci's. They know him when he walks through the door. He loves to shower me with gifts, puts rose petals on the bed and brings in tea lights for a romantic evening, and hates for me to want for anything...but I knew all this when we married...BEFORE we married...so I cant imagine that much has changed since this marriage started with the anniversary drama.
    Why be so shocked and suprised by a husband that seldomly remembers days like this. My mom always says, "you can't change a man" even with marriage. I'll just bet this is not the first, last or newest time something like this has happened.
    Would I be upset if my man missed our anniversary, probably not because I always forget myself. But we both like to go all out for our birthdays so I would be a little sad if he forgot about that, but me being all dramatic as I am...their are all kinds of reminders all over the house to remind him that the BIG day is coming up, LOL!
    Maybe you could help remind him in the future, do you think that would work? Or reward him TREMENDOUSLY when he does remember something, even the smallest thing...if ya know what I mean, LOL!

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    lisahmoore - Actually, its mostly just my birthday that he pulls stuff like this on. Our anniversary used to be right after Valentine's Day... so we always had a real celebration for both days. Now that we have a "real" anniversary, he doesn't seem as enthusiastic. Our first anniversary was nice. Like I said, I think he got me a card and flowers and then he took me shopping to pick out a necklace. But now it seems like our anniversary is just as important to him as my birthday. What's next? Christmas?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NashvilleDiva_83 View Post
    Is there something you BOTH like doing? Could you set up a date that you would both enjoy?
    Well, this will sound silly... but we both liked to go play mini golf. Most of the courses have been shut down around here. We went to the next city over (about 40 minutes away) to play there one day last year. But my husband gets irritated rather easily by other people trying to hurry us along. He also hates little kids running around like maniacs when you're trying to putt.

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