^ Oh I am very sorry to hear that you got laid off. That totally just blows when companies pull that crap....
And fighting with the bf is no fun. i've gone through it too, so i can relate. But we were able to talk about issues we had with each other and fortunately, we have been working around them and have been getting along (of course there are still some annoyances here and there, but they are peyty and we realize it and don't push the issue). i'm not by any means an expert, but i can relate to how you feel. before when we were fighting a lot, many times i felt like he didn't care about how i was feeling or what i had to say. and i was balmed for many things that weren't my fault. at times i just got so frustrated and fed up. but anyways, have you tried talking to him and telling him how you feel?
I hope today is a better day. The job market is rough right now...my husband's brothers wife lost her job today and she worked in the same place for 25 years. A coworker of mine was let go yesterday after a 35 year career with the company we were purchased from...very sad. After 35 years all he got was a luncheon at Chilis and a cake in the breakroom. I feel for everyone that goes through it. My dad worked for General Motors for 32 years, and lost his job back in December of 2006 by taking a buyout ... but then the company cut retiree medical plans back from PPOs to basic (don't know what that is...just know it's expensive and coverage sucks) so he wishes he would have just stayed on board, even though he would have gotten laid off (union).
You're young, you're resourceful, and no one can take that from you. Hope everything looks up.
Sounds like he's going through a lot. I would just back up and give him some space. Be there for him, but at the same time let him do his thing. He will look back and remember how supportive you were through the whole ordeal. If you appear needy and naggy, he's likely to fly off the handle. Also, if he starts to blame you for anything or starts lashing out on you, get out of the relationship.
Everyone has a bad day, at least one per week going by my average. This has actually been a pretty good week for me, so I am anticipating tomorrow or Friday to not go so well.
Ugh... now I'm having a bad day. Sinus infection is starting to take hold... went to the school doctor to get antibiotics. Didn't go to class today... not going to go to work either. Plus, I was driving to the pharmacy and a squirrel came out of now where and I hit the poor little thing! Oh I hate it when that happens! Now I have to do homework and stuff that's due tomorrow... but I just feel awful.
I have a bad day every time this month...in the finance/acctg department of a multi national corporation, we have to have all of our books closed by Friday. Add that to the fact that we have facilities and offices in Asia that are just starting their day at 5pm our time, sometimes there are late nights. **Sigh** At least my boss is nice.