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March 26th, 2007, 09:24 PM #1
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gotta help me out
ok this is about boyfriend issues
this all started a while ago i was at my bfs house and i noticed a pic of a girl on his dresser and i asked him about it he said oh i guess my mom put it there i dont talk to her anymore i used to talk to her in a chat room then he threw out the pic i believed him
now right around the holidays he was on my comp and he left to go home and he was still signed in to myspace when i snooped around his myspace page
I KNOW I WAS WRONG FOR DOING THIS BUT I COULDNT HELP IT
but there was a message from the girl in his inbox it was a pic of her in a slutty mrs. claus outfit and he responded thanks for the pic my holiday is complete now
i was so upset so i decided.....NOW I KNOW I AM WRONG AGAIN
i deleted her and some few random people(so it didnt seem odd) off his profile cuz i wanted to see if he would add her again
AND HE DID
SO THEY DEF TALK
i figured i should not worry about it cuz her profile says she is from virgina but you can always lie about that
so i have no clue what to do my boyfriend seems kinda distant latly and i worry that he may me cheating becuause he doent work now and he has all day to do nothing
i never thought i would post this here but i feel like i have nobody to talk to all of my cloest friends dont have boyfriends
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March 26th, 2007, 10:17 PM #2
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Re: gotta help me out
Hmm... lies...might be cheating... doesn't have a job... sounds like a winner!
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March 26th, 2007, 10:29 PM #3
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im glad im not the only one who posted a bf issue...lol
princess, i totally support you and please dont feel like you have no one to talk to. everyone here at tbf is wonderful...just read what i posted and you will see how understanding and caring these girls really are. you have plenty of honest, sincere people to talk to here, ok?
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March 27th, 2007, 12:48 AM #4
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March 27th, 2007, 04:24 AM #5
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Re: gotta help me out
sounds like cheating to me, hmmm, lying, being distant, i can smell something fishy..... be very careful and follow your intuitions
Last edited by bagluvah; March 27th, 2007 at 04:30 AM.
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March 27th, 2007, 08:00 AM #6
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Why not just come right out and ask him? Hehe... make him squirm a little!
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March 27th, 2007, 01:19 PM #7
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Re: gotta help me out
Sorry Hun... that's def. a cheater! Why don't you confront him??? OMG... sooo many people are having relationship problems... I just got off the phone w/ my crying sister as well... Anyways, confront him and ask him about her!!!!
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March 27th, 2007, 05:45 PM #8
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Re: gotta help me out
well i am continuing my investagative work i want to make sure 100 percent without a doubt have all the evidence i need cuz i dont want to seen like an idiot cuz i snooped on his account
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March 27th, 2007, 06:37 PM #9
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Hehe... why not ask some of those girls if he has been messing around with them?
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March 27th, 2007, 07:52 PM #10
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if he lies?? he's a cheater. i don't care what anyone says but BF + doing anything with another girl = cheating...
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March 27th, 2007, 07:53 PM #11
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Re: gotta help me out
well i must say my second job should be a detective i know his myspace password now i know im bad nothing on there today to make me upset lol
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March 28th, 2007, 05:59 AM #12
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maybe coz he sensed that you are already snooping around...
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March 29th, 2007, 02:45 PM #13
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Re: gotta help me out
I wouldn't go so far as to say that this is evidence that he's cheating, for sure. BUT, there are obviously some trust problems in your relationship. You should ask yourself if you are transferring mistrust from experiences with other people in your past, or if this guy has given you a real reason not to trust him. True, it's pretty uncool of him to be chatting with some girl who is disreputable enough to send slutty pictures of herself to men in committed relationships, but he might just be a naive guy who doesn't take it seriously and is a little flattered by the attention. But, you've also been doing a bit of snooping and the gravity of these little lapses in judgment might just balance out. All I'm saying is, this could all be a very innocent misunderstanding, or it could be a seriously damaged relationship.
Consider if you are prone to mistrust because of your past; did someone cheat on you? You might need to come to terms with your own fears for the sake of your relationship. Consider his past. Has he cheated before? I am a believer of the "once a cheater, always a cheater" rule.
Take care of yourself, and we are here for you as well!
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