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    Default Wanna hear a story??!

    Ive recently just reconnected with this girl that I useta have a crAaAaAzy crush on from the 4th-9th grade. We've been talking for the past month or so, trying to cattch up on old times. We chatted on webcam and she was telling me about what's been going on in her life throughout these years. She started telling me about her ex Bf.....She was saying how abusive he was and how he was a drug addict that refuse to go to rehab to try to kick his addiction. Well, she broke up with him and a few weeks later found out that she was pregnant. She decided to keep the baby and raise him alone without the help of the father (as long as he's still an addict anyways).

    ANyways, She kept telling me stuff like"OoOh, no one will want me because Ill be a single mother Blah, blah, blah". WHIch made me feel bad....And,I wanted to make her feel better about herself.

    So.......I started telling her about the hugh crush that I had on her back in the day. I told her about how I would throw coins into those wishing fountains wishing really hard for her to notice me. I told her that I crushed on her for years and was too scared to make the move.

    Well, she was really flattered and surprised that I felt that way about her and said that she had no idea. SHe said it probably wouldve been different if Id approached her (DAMN ME for bein a CHICKEN!!!).

    Awww, HOw sweeeet, Right? Kinda sounds like GUY is finlly able to hook up with his elementary/middle school dream girl??...Well, NO! Not really. I felt like that for her waaaaay back then, but not now. HOnestly, Im not even physically attracted to her now. (How shallow, huh???).

    To make a long story short.... I think that she may think that this is heading somewhere that it's not. I have no interest in starting anything with her...But, Im too afraid to say anything because I dont want to hurt her feelings or self esteem at the moment because she really has a bad self image of herslef at the moment and I dont wanna be responsible for making her feel worst about herself.

    Sometimes she says stuff like "I miss you" or "Love ya" or "I cant stop thinking about you". I just try to change the subject and talk about something else. Then shes asked if I felt the same way....and I told her it just wasnt easy for me to say stuff like that so soon. It gets even worst when she tries to talk dirty to me. I just make up some excuses to leave and log off (reaaally fast).

    *SIGH* I know I probably screwed up somewhere and this whole thing is my fault somehow....






    What to do, what to do....
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    Default Re: Wanna hear a story??!

    Wow!


    Just want to say... W E L C O M E B A C K GUY!!!
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    Default Re: Wanna hear a story??!

    Welcome back guy

    Honestly, if it was me I would probably slowly drop contact. If you want to just be friends with her, then tell her that. Or say that you recently started seeing someone. I can see why she thinks you have a thing for her. I mean if you told her that you had the biggest crush on her, and even wished you were together.. that's kinda hinting, if you know what I mean. And no, not shallow. People change, especially when talking about someone you crushed on back in elementary/middle school. Good luck

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    Guy, you have no idea how much we have missed you! It is so good to see you!

    As for this girl, I think you just need to come clean with her. Tell her that you just want to be friends, after all she did just get out of a nasty relationship. I think if you tell her the truth (maybe not the part where you're not physically attracted to her) then maybe she'll realize that she might be pushing things a bit too hard. Like it sounds to me as if she is so hurt and feeling bad about herself right now that she's desperately looking for something (or someone) to latch onto. She needs to get her feelings straightened out first before she should even think about getting into another relationship. KWIM?

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    Default Re: Wanna hear a story??!

    Yea...you guys are right. I should just talk to her about it. But....IM SUCH A CHICKEN!!! Btw, I think she's just coming on hard at me because perhaps she doesnt wanna be alone at this time.




    SO, erm....You guys think that I should take advantage of a pregnant chic and get me some?? Lmao


















































    Psssst, I WAS KIDDING!!!

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    Default Re: Wanna hear a story??!

    OMG, Guy! You are awful! LOL! No, of course not.

    But yes, I think that that is EXACTLY what is going on. She is just feeling desperate at the moment and she is probably willing to latch onto anyone if it meant she wouldn't be alone. What she probably really needs right now is friends and family around her, not a new "daddy" for her baby. So just explain to her that it is probably for the best that you guys aren't in a relationship and that you don't feel as "strongly" about her as she does you. I think after some time she will realize how irrational she is being. After all, she's probably very emotional (and hormonal) at the moment.

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    Default Re: Wanna hear a story??!

    Quote Originally Posted by THE-GUY View Post

    Psssst, I WAS KIDDING!!!
    ^ you totally weren't kidding.. lol.

    so like what bRs said, she does feel desperate right now to have someone by her side so when you told here that you had a crush on her before, she probably took it in over her head and thought it meant you still like her now. some girls are crazy like that and they take something little and make it something big, lol. stop being a chicken and talk to her.. geez.. hehe. (:


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    Default Re: Wanna hear a story??!

    GUY...I'm going to have to agree with the last posts but with a word of caution.

    If you're not ready to be a step daddy to her baby don't EVEN go down the path. Alot has changed since you last knew her (obviously) and she may not be the same person you knew.

    I don't know...I can just see GUY on Maury and him saying "Guy...you are NOT the father!!!!"
    LOL

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    So....What you girls are saying is that the reason she's all over me is because she's hormonal, desperate, and lonely???.....Wow, what a self esteem boost for me. And here I thought it was all cause of my charming personality. HMMMPT!

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    ^^^ Awwww....poor Guy! No, I think what we're saying is that if the circumstances were a little less "out of the ordinary" it would be a more clear case of attraction because of personality. Right now, she may or may not be in a position to make that determination with a clear head.

    She's got alot of things running through her mind that don't make sense...brought on by her upcoming baby, hormones, need for security, etc.

    Guy, I'm sure you're quite a catch...one who LOVES to buy his girl a bag or two...(or three).

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    Quote Originally Posted by texlatina View Post
    Guy, I'm sure you're quite a catch...one who LOVES to buy his girl a bag or two...(or three).

    Uhhh....Say what now?? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by texlatina View Post
    I can just see GUY on Maury and him saying "Guy...you are NOT the father!!!!"
    LOL
    HOw can she get pregnant by me when she is already pregnant??!! (you cant right???). I mean, this would be the perfect opportunity!! Shes vunerable, lonely, and there's no chance of her getting pregnant.





    *Slaps self* *Talks to self* STop it!! STop it GUY!! Stop thinking that and get that out of your head!! You cant take advantage of a pregnant chic!!!

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    ^^^ well I'm just saying you'd be on there to prove your NOT the father.

    Please take the high road and don't take advantage of the poor girl. If you're looking to her for simply physical needs, that is just plain wrong.

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    ^^^ DOnt worry. I wouldnt. Who the heck would do that?! DO I look like a redneck hillbilly?!

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    Welcome back GUY!!

    I agree with what everyone said, especially Jennifer + bRs. Even though it may not be the easiest thing to do, you still should tell her the truth.

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