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    My BIL (husband's sister's husband,lol) has been calling and texting me during his break when he is working nights. We chat and have good conversation, nothing sexual, except for the media messages he sends. Like cartoony type stuff. Tonight he sent me a hamster ''eating'' a carrot. Then he sent me a text asking if I was awake. I texted back yes, so he called. What does this sound like to you guys? I do not want to get stuck in the middle of something I don't want to be in in the first place!!!

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    Do you think he's just being friendly? How close are you with them in general? I guess I don't see the problem unless he's trying to get you to meet with him... you know, alone.

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    If it makes you uncomfortable, step back. Usually a woman's instinct is right and if it's wrong, no harm done. Unless of course you say and do something rude to him...
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    My husband and I are really close to SIL & BIL. We do alot together! He's just never acted like that. It's weird to a point. We get along on so many levels. I just am not into him like that...I hope he not into me like that. It would make things weird.

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    I would maybe take a little step back ... I mean don't totally cut him off , but make yourself a bit less available. I really don't see any issues with texting , emailing etc. , but the phone/in person stuff I would be a bit leary of. Maybe that evening he had a BAD BAD time at work and needed someone to lighten up his spirits ! I dunno .. as Frbspa said before .. do go with your gut/instinct .

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