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    Okay

    DH has a daughter. Thanks to myspace, I located said daughter and my dh was able to get back in contact with her (she's 11) ... and we sent her a $200 money order for Christmas. She is only 2 hours from us, and I sent my family in MI stuff on the same day.

    Michiganders already got their items. Stepdaughter has not gotten her money and has called dh crying about it. (He told her it was on the way so she would watch for it). Well, tracked the package and it was delivered and the mom signed for it.

    Called the bank and the MOM CASHED THE CHECK!!! Not much we can do about it..but isn't that disgusting? He wrote her a really nice letter about missing her and glad they talk and everything...she didn't get any of it. Since she's a minor she can't cash a check anyways so it's not like we could compel her to give her daughter the money.

    I am just livid. Why would you take your kids money???

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    That's awful! The same thing happened to me when I was little. My parents had a nasty divorce and custody battle over me. Is there anyway you can talk to her about it? Or will you see her anytime soon? That was horrible of her mother; they don't understand how it hurts the children ... it's not just money you send them, it's the fact that you were thinking of them.

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    omg thats horrible! how can a mother do that? I feel for you nashville, hope everything works out!

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    What a Bitch!!!!

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    ^^ exactly! I didn't want to say it...

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    Quote Originally Posted by warhols__muse View Post
    That's awful! The same thing happened to me when I was little. My parents had a nasty divorce and custody battle over me. Is there anyway you can talk to her about it? Or will you see her anytime soon? That was horrible of her mother; they don't understand how it hurts the children ... it's not just money you send them, it's the fact that you were thinking of them.
    Last time we tried to see her there was SO MUCH DRAMA and it was just horrible. The mother's boyfriend threatened the son (who lives with us) and then the mom called 37 times (yes 37) within two hours. Threatened to take us to court over the son (to enforce visitations, but he wouldn't go)

    going to court to try to get her, which is what would actually be best for her, would be hard because she wants to live with her mom. We would spend thousands of dollars and even if we won she wouldn't really be happy.

    We sent her a copy of cancelled check and told her maybe her mom used it on Christmas presents. She's disappointed and sad, but there's not much we can do.

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    Oh man, that's just awful!! How could she, anybody do something like that

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    she should talk to the mom about it, its awful to take your kids money especially if its a present from someone else, she's 11 she understands... she probably wanted to get something with that $200... I don't want to be judgmental but mothers like that shouldn't be mothers, KWIM

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    I think she uses the kids as more of pawns in a twisted game. It's like...she can't move on with the fact that her and dh didn't work out. Yes, it sucks...yes, it hurt. BUT!!!!! It's not the kids fault it happened. Yes, she can make dh miserable by taking away the daughter and not letting him see her...but then she grows up without a male role model (and from what I seen she's 11 and she looks 16...which is scary)

    Oh well. I shouldn't have tried to find her but dh wsa feeling sad and I wanted them to reconcile and feel better...but that's not going to work. Not if problems are already starting like this.

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    This is awful. I feel so bad for your DH's daughter. What a rotten thing for a mother to do to her child.

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    I'm so sorry that happened! What she did was utterly despicable! I feel really bad for your husband, since this is probably just as hard on him as it is on the 11 year old. Can you take the mother to small claims court or something? I guess the mother would just tell the judge that an 11 year old doesn't need $200 and it was put in a savings account for her (which it probably really wasn't, but that would be her defense).

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    That is terrible! I feel so sorry for the children in these situations!
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    She's going to be okay ... I've been a pawn all of my life until I walked away from my inheritance. I didn't grow up with a male role model either but I had a lot of mentors in my life. She'll be okay. I know it's awful what her mother did but she'll really be okay.

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    Oh that's just awful, Nash! I am so sorry that you and your dh are going through this. I'm with Guy on this one, the mother is a real bitch for doing that, IMO!

    I'd slap her!

    Hugs to you and your family while you're going through all this! :hug:

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    That is so terrible for the mother to do that to her child. I feel sorry for the 11yr old. I am so sorry you have to go throught this.

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