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    ~♥~ Just Married ~♥~ daisydeadpetals's Avatar
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    Default You ever just get the feeling...

    ... that something bad, possibly really bad, is going to happen?

    I've been having this feeling ever since I had the fallout with my friend that I was helping with her divorce and all. We had a HUGE fallout (looooong story) and it ended up really bad between us. But just before the sh*t hit the fan, I had the same feeling, and everything blew up between her and I. Then she went off telling one of her friends (who oddly enough, took my side when it all went down ) that she planned on "jacking" me for all of my bags! (Yeah right, like I'd let that happen! )

    But since then I just have that same feeling like I did before, like something is going to happen. Does that make any sense? Has anyone else felt like this before?

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    My mom and my aunt got these feelings. I swear my mom knows when something bads going to happen, and I've started catching on to how she acts so I know when they're going to. Just before my aunt passed away, she told her daughters to make sure her granddaughters got their christmas presesnts from her, and things like that... She knew she was going to pass away a week before it happened. And, my mom knew around the same time, she got really depressed and all that. Its so weird! Lol

    Sorry, Didnt mean to write that much. Hopefully you're just having a bad feeling though and nothing else bad happens! Sorry about the fallout with your friend, btw.

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    I'm normally clueless about such things. But that's scary that you're feeling like that. Maybe your friend's words are just playing on your imagination. I really hope nothing bad happens. You know what they say, "wishful thinking" and all. Is there any way to work things out with her? Or was it really bad?

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    oh, sorry to hear that daisy. i know you have been there for your friend so much in the past couple months.

    I can't really think of a time I felt like something bad was going to happen, and then something big did happen. But, a lot of times I have had a gut feeling not to say something and then I say it, and the out come is really bad. I also worry a lot about my family when they are gone, but then I help myself by thinking that if something bad did happen then I would probably just feel like something is wrong. I don't know if that makes any sense.

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    I am really sorry that you had a falling out with your friend. What bothers me is the comment she made about "jacking you for your bags". What does that mean?
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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    I am sorry to hear that. You have been such a good friend to her. I hope that nothing bad happens. I was always told to trust my "gut" feeling. Maybe what she said about "jacking you for your purses" is playing on your mind and that's why you are feeling this way. Anyway, maybe you just need to trust your feelings and stay away from her until this passes.

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    Wow, I'm sorry Daisy!! You try to help someone out and be a good friend, to only find they are taking advantage of you.


    If she was gonna steal your bags, we'd ALL be after her!!

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    Quote Originally Posted by JessLR View Post
    Wow, I'm sorry Daisy!! You try to help someone out and be a good friend, to only find they are taking advantage of you.


    If she was gonna steal your bags, we'd ALL be after her!!
    Aww... thanks, Jess!

    Well I guess the ol' saying is true: "No good deed goes unpunished".

    Maybe you guys are right, maybe her saying that is just getting to me...

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    I think that often is not about having a feeling but about being perceptive. Something negative went down between you and your now ex-friend, and usually there's two sides to the story because everyone likes to be right. That's just normal. Maybe what you thought was a good deed turned into a bad deed in her eyes. For her to threaten to jack (whatever that means) your bags, it must have been a huge fallout, just like you said. If the relationship can't be repaired (maybe you two could patch things up), then all you can do is learn from from the situation and move on.
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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    What is meant by "jack" my handbags is to come up into my home (whether anyone is home is irrelevant) and STEAL them!

    So, no, the friendship cannot be repaired. At least not through my eyes.

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    She sounds a bit crazy Daisy, and you're probably better off not being around her. I would never expect to hear a comment like that coming from one of my friends, and if I did, I would cut all ties immediately.

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    I just have deja vu feelings all the time. I'll be doing something and I swear I will remember doing it once before... saying the same things, word for word. Like it happened already and now I'm just hitting the replay button. Maybe I dream of things that will happen and when then they do happen, I'm simply remembering the dream.

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    My husband is like that. It creeps me out, but he will tell me something like "don't go to lunch today, stay in the office" and I just go along with it. One time he told me that and I would have went with this girl to lunch and she came back from lunch all freaked out because she almost got hit by a train. He was like...see if you would have went you guys would have been talking and goofing around and you would have been killed. I doubt it but it was still freaky...

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    Default Re: You ever just get the feeling...

    I've had that feeling before. It was Christmas Eve of 05' and I was at my Bf's house eating before heading out to Manteca to visit his relatives. As I was eating, I had a feeling we were going to get into an accident on our way to Manteca. Sure enough 20 mins after we left we got into an accident. I told the Bf that I had a feeling that was going to happen and he thought I was crazy. Usually when I have a weird feelings something bad happens.

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