I have been out of a 24 years relationship for at least 3 months now... I was living at my friend house how has a son to make the story short i was dating him (n its ok with his mom) but he made me feel very good and wanted to go on holiday with me and stuff n we talk he told me that he would take care of me, and he you not hurt me and stuff like that but that he had a hard time with relationship..but also told me that he would not cheat on me because it happen to him before and that it hurt too much to do this to someone...

So we see each other for a while well 2 month but i had notice after the 1 month he reduce the txt and i did not see him quite often and he did not call me (babe, or sweet heart) like he use too…
One weekend I ask him if he wanted to do something with me ..he said that he was too tired he was going to bed cause he work on Saturday…but when I pass by his place I can see that he was up …his sister told me that he was up but she taught that he just wanted to be alone and did not wanted to tell me…the Sunday after he was going with his friend so we did not talk he call me at night inviting me over so we had supper and went to bed…
But the next weekend after I wanted to do something with him on Friday he was busy he said but inside I had a feeling that something was up..i drove by his place he was up but had the feeling that he was with someone …(his sister confirm that with me the next day that he was with a girl, she sleep there and the Saturday he drove home before going to work) the Saturday night when I ask him to do something with him he said that his friend was picking him up for watch a fight..(but I find out that he never went for a fight..that that girl was there all along with him..) so the Sunday his sister was so pissed that he play with me like that that she told me to come over and see for myself cause I had a hard time to believe he would to that to me…so I went and yes he was there in bed with her..i rip my heart open… he got out of the room and goes (what’s up) ..wow what up..he told me I never said I would commit to you…after we talk he wants to continue to see me again but no commitment …me I am sad, because I don’t understand even that he did that to me I am still in love with me …I am stupid or what…not too sure what to do…the last time I saw him was last Friday…I went over, he was working on Saturday so I did not see him but he was suppose to come check my hot water tank that was not working on Sunday he never came because he was working but did not even bother to call me to tell me so now I have not heard from him since Saturday am when he left for work…I have a hurge to text him to see how he is doing….but everyone tell me not too to let him chase me but I got the feeling that he not too much into me I guess… I am sad, and feel lost with all of this…I guess I got attach too quick to someone…

Also I need to let you know that 8 years ago he was in a relationship and they got to a fight and the girl commit suicide then next day he found her in the house hanging in the basement and think it’s his faults. His mom think that he really got attach to me and realise that he got scared so to snap out of it he went with someone else…