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    my hubby got me a neverfull mm for Xmas. I saw the wallet that I like to match (the long zippy wallet) as we are in south fl for Xmas. Credit card company just called me to verify a purchase at neiman marcus in ft laudedeale. I thnk he got me the wallet because it was a $680 charge. I wanted to get him a laptop for Xmas but he gave me a speech about how we are saving for a down payment on a house and so I just spent about $250 on him. Should I make him take it back? I haven't told him the company called. It's my card and he's just an authorized user so it's not lime I snooper

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    I think you should tell him that the credit card company called and left a message regarding a large charge, but don't tell him you know how much was spent. Ask him if he authorized the charge and then remind him that he suggested keeping money tight for a house. If he really wants you to have something that expensive that you don't need, then there isn't anything you can do. In my almost 20 years of married life, I've found that my husbasnd feels better if he can give me a gift that I don't need, but that I want. He'll worry about bills after the holiday.

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    Nash, I'd let it go. He's trying to do something nice for you. Let him. Just mention that the credit card company called and does he want to call them back about an authroized transaction or should you.... and then leave it at that.
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    Yeah, I agree with Maevey!

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    I wouldn't make him take it back. That was really sweet of him. But I do agree with Maevey + Sappy.. maybe mention that the cc called about a purchase...

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    Default Re: what would you do

    I agree with the majority. Let him give it to you. It's a really sweet thing for him to do. He'll be so excited about surprising you.

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    I agree with everyone else. He obviously wants you to have the wallet you wanted & that is really sweet. I think he would be disappointed if he knew you already found out about it. He probably told you not to get him a laptop since he knew he was going to be spending a lot on you.

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    Default Re: what would you do

    Just let it go... it's Christmas, and he really wants to surprise you. That's so sweet of your hubby!

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    Quote Originally Posted by VivaLaJuicy View Post
    Just let it go... it's Christmas, and he really wants to surprise you. That's so sweet of your hubby!
    Actually, this is what I decided to do. I verified myself that it was a good charge and then actually I had too much to drink on Xmas eve and forgot about it so I was genuinely suprised on Christmas morning when I got it (hung over) ... My sister in law made the egg nog SO FREAKING STRONG!! And then I had spiced cider as well (which was spiked of course) some wine etc.

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    Haha. Well thats good you ended up being "suprised"


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    Awwww you're so lucky to have hubby like that. What a great surprise!

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    How sweet is that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by serendipity View Post
    Awwww you're so lucky to have hubby like that. What a great surprise!
    Yeah, he's a good egg. I just feel guilty that I didn't get him a computer for Christmas but he made me promise that I wouldn't get him one. Maybe for his birthday but that's in February so that's awfully close !! Maybe an anniversary/bday/vday present (Jan 26, feb 10, feb 14) ...

    What we really need is a house. We have so much freaking crap in our apartment after christmas it's not even funny!!!

    I still have the blue film on the zipper pull on it because I don't want to scratch it up!! Everything is so pretty on it! I am usually a checkbook wallet kinda gal, but I like the zippy wallet for some reason...

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    What a sweetie and congrats!
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