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Originally Posted by daniellelynn
Dear Bf-
I am getting very angry with you lately. I understand that you only get to see your son a couple days a week, but he should not get away with anything and everything he does. He treats me like crap, and he's only five. I know I "shouldn't let this bother me that much" but it does. You let him do whatever and say whatever he wants to me, and I am not going to let that slide. If I don't have a say in how he is going to be raised while he is in OUR home, then I shouldn't be in this relationship. It should not be like this... But, when I say something to you, you just blow it off and treat him like he's done nothing wrong... Things need to change, and then need to change soon...
Too bad I hardly get to see you anymore to actually sit down & talk to you about how I feel. :-/
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This child will always be important to your boyfriend and that is good - a boy needs a father. It doesn't sound, though, like your boyfriend is trying to make it work with you and everything, though. He needs to be sensitive. Here's a site on stepfamilies that you can read and stuff...see if it gives you any good advice.
The Stepfamily Life: A Weekly Column By a Real-Life Stepmom
Good luck! Only you can decide if it is worth it to get/stay with someoen who has children.