Maeveyblue

The biggest issue people have in a relationship is game playing. Don't do it. I know it feels good while you do it, but the repercussions aren't always what you want them to be. Both parties tend to grow bitter and resentful.
Be honest, talk to him openly and honestly and you'll be fine.
If I were you that first night I would have gone in and told him you were tired, you were heading home, and that you loved him. I wouldn't have locked him out of the apt. the next night because that is petty and small and game playing.
You love him, you want him in your life. So let him know these things. Men are so easy to please and keep happy. All it takes is a little courtesy (and sex) on our parts and you can have pretty much the perfect relationship.