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Originally Posted by NashvilleDiva_83
My husband has two kids with his ex wife. The one of them lives with mom, and the other lives with us. It was such a hostile situation with the mom that it really turned tragic and now the child that lives with us refuses to see her, and the mom ran off with the other child and we haven't seen/heard from them in at least two years. It's really sad...
They had been divorced for four or five years when I came along, but after we got married she freaked out becuase all of a sudden there was another woman in the house and I think she always kind of hoped they would get back together. When all hope is gone, people do desperate things.
There's a way you can have a amicable relationship with the ex, but that is only when they have moved on as well as your husband has moved on and all feelings are dead.
I love my husband with all my heart, but the reason that we work is because he puts our relationship first and foremost. I don't think we will have kids together, but if we did and then we went our separate ways, I wouldn't freak out like his ex did. I'd put the past in the past and move on and do what was best for the child.
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It's so sad that your Husband hasn't seen his other child in 2 years. That is so so sad and I feel sorry for the both of you and the one who lives with you, to not see your sibling for years has to be painful. The sad thing about my situation, ladies, is that my Husband treats me like a queen and will do anything and everything for me. I don't get jealous because the simple reality is, as tacky as it is, him and his ex were having fun, nothing serious and then she got pregnant. She hid from him that she had 2 other children and now she had 5 with 3 Fathers, lives off of Social Services and is just a mess. If my Husband and I don't work it will be because of me getting sick of her, not him, he is wonderful, I get angry with him because I wish he was more picky about who he was with when he was 20.