Re: Just wondering...
My husband has two kids with his ex wife. The one of them lives with mom, and the other lives with us. It was such a hostile situation with the mom that it really turned tragic and now the child that lives with us refuses to see her, and the mom ran off with the other child and we haven't seen/heard from them in at least two years. It's really sad...
They had been divorced for four or five years when I came along, but after we got married she freaked out becuase all of a sudden there was another woman in the house and I think she always kind of hoped they would get back together. When all hope is gone, people do desperate things.
There's a way you can have a amicable relationship with the ex, but that is only when they have moved on as well as your husband has moved on and all feelings are dead.
I love my husband with all my heart, but the reason that we work is because he puts our relationship first and foremost. I don't think we will have kids together, but if we did and then we went our separate ways, I wouldn't freak out like his ex did. I'd put the past in the past and move on and do what was best for the child.
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