So are you going to return it? I thought I saw that question...maybe not since you have been using it?
I love that bag, its soooo hot!!!
I am a shoulder bag person too (remarkably though I have noticed that more than half of my bags are speedy bags of some kind or another...basically they are bags that you carry on your arms and not shoulder bags.)
But I really loved looking at this purse, the pictures you took were AWESOME and the bag looks sooo pretty. I wouldnt buy this bag, I dont really go anywhere at night or to a place where a small bag would be practical, but if I did I would LOVE that bag. If I saw you wearing that bag one night I would be staring at your bag every chance I got, its just so cute! LOL!