Hera

maeveyblue you are correct. (and so is suze)

when i look at a woman carrying a designer bag, it doesn't get her automatic respect from me.

if you're talking about someone who is in a position to, yes.

but someone who is not in a position to, who chooses to splurge irresponsibility for vanity over other responsibilities, no.

i am not a fan of the carrie bradshaw way of life because the reality is such.... people are finding it tougher to survive in their winter years. in the movies it always looks peachy whereas in reality, your caviar jumbo is not going to feed you, clothe you, pay for the med bills, education, etc....

so yes, everything in moderation is good. a 23 year old carrying a chanel.. is an excess for me.