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Originally Posted by Alicia
I'm thinking about telling him I want a break until I'm more comfortable with myself. It probably wouldn't bother me as much anymore if I was where I wanted to be.
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my best friend just did that with her 5 yr relationship! i think it's good for the both of them though.
i don't know if i'd say it's a "normal guy thing". yes...a guy can make a comment or so but with my boyfriend he's just not like that. I guess i'm lucky but when I would ask him he just looks at me and says "sus...you know i'm picky. i was never a guy that was into random girls. i knew exactly what i wanted, and now i have it". i guess it's true - he's very detailed about everything he does. i can barely get him to name someone famous that we would agree on that if he met and had sex with, I would be okay with it (mine is Brad Pitt or Beckham...but the boyfriend hasn't agreed yet...).
what's interesting also is that i've seen right before my eyes girls just go insane for him. i don't ever really get jealous...well sometimes...but i've gotten used to it. so it's not like he can't get these pretty girls, he knows he can, it's just that he rather not waste his time gushing over them. I dunno...he's a rarity I guess.