Originally Posted by texlatina

I agree with the opinions that the cost is relative to your income. For example, I cannot afford bags/shoes that are more than 200-300 dollars unless I save up for them. I've charged up so many credit cards but I've worked VERY HARD to pay them off. My student loans don't help either but I still manage to have nice things. I discourage any of my friends who want to live the 'living on credit' lifestyle as I've been there.

But don't be too hard on yourself for wanting nice things. As long as you're able to pay all your bills and have a little extra left over, who cares if you bought something nice. I'm sure your husband wouldn't mind paying $1600 for something he really likes (a watch, speakers, new wheels for his car, etc).

To make him feel better, tell him the next time you guys get some extra money, he can splurge on something he's been wanting for a long time.