WOW! that is a tricky situation.
It is just my opinion, but if you spent as much on a bag as your mortgage, then it is too much.
Did you discuss with your husband before buying the bag? If yes, and your husband was on board with you spending it, don't feel guilty and enjoy it.
But if you went ahead and bought the bag without discussing it first, i don't think it would be right. It also depends if you have other commitments like student loans, car payments or children to care for, then the bag is too expensive at the present time. You can always buy a gorgeous bag later when the $1600 really is not as big a deal as it is at this time.
Good Luck and sorry if i made you feel bad!
