hey, sorry to hear about your grandma. a couple months back, my grandma had cancer and they said she only had like 2 weeks to live. well, she has fully recovered now and i am thankful for that. while my grandma was sick, i didnt visit her because for years my mother told me how badly my grandmother (my dad's mom) treated her. and at the time, i sided with my mother. but come to find out, my mother exaggerated what she told me and the fact is that my grandma never treated her badly. and recently i just learned how screwed up my mother is and i wont even talk about it here. and as for the money thing, all i can say is that its horrible how money changes everything. i have had plenty of experiences with that. in fact my bf's mood changes completely (for the better) when there is money involved and it is not his...if that makes sense. well, hopefully things work out and try not to think about your mom caring about the money because you will make yourself sick over it. hang in there...
