In regards to my mom's motives... I'm thinking 10% might be guilt and 90% is definately about the money. My mom can sugar coat it all she wants... I know that she doesn't really feel anything for the woman. Especially not enough to give herself an ulcer over it! To make matters worse, all she does is talk bad about my grandma's husband. Yes... he is a smelly old man who is known to be a womanizer and a male gold digger. He has done nothing but find ways to spend my grandma's money since they got married just a few years ago. He actually stole $20,000 from my grandma's bank account to pay off a debt for siding on his house. This was something he decided to waste money on before they were married and then he used her money to pay off the balance. My grandma was so furious with him when she found out that she wanted a divorce... but after going to church a couple of times, she decided not to go through with it. Did they guilt her with her wedding vows? I'm assuming so...
Anyway, I know that my grandma's husband is not a very nice guy... but my mom has no room to talk because she's just as bad!
