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LikityKity · March 29th, 2007, 03:45 PM

I wouldn't go so far as to say that this is evidence that he's cheating, for sure. BUT, there are obviously some trust problems in your relationship. You should ask yourself if you are transferring mistrust from experiences with other people in your past, or if this guy has given you a real reason not to trust him. True, it's pretty uncool of him to be chatting with some girl who is disreputable enough to send slutty pictures of herself to men in committed relationships, but he might just be a naive guy who doesn't take it seriously and is a little flattered by the attention. But, you've also been doing a bit of snooping and the gravity of these little lapses in judgment might just balance out. All I'm saying is, this could all be a very innocent misunderstanding, or it could be a seriously damaged relationship.

Consider if you are prone to mistrust because of your past; did someone cheat on you? You might need to come to terms with your own fears for the sake of your relationship. Consider his past. Has he cheated before? I am a believer of the "once a cheater, always a cheater" rule.

Take care of yourself, and we are here for you as well!

March 29th, 2007, 03:45 PM	#13 (permalink)
LikityKity Hello! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: East Coast Posts: 111	Re: gotta help me out I wouldn't go so far as to say that this is evidence that he's cheating, for sure. BUT, there are obviously some trust problems in your relationship. You should ask yourself if you are transferring mistrust from experiences with other people in your past, or if this guy has given you a real reason not to trust him. True, it's pretty uncool of him to be chatting with some girl who is disreputable enough to send slutty pictures of herself to men in committed relationships, but he might just be a naive guy who doesn't take it seriously and is a little flattered by the attention. But, you've also been doing a bit of snooping and the gravity of these little lapses in judgment might just balance out. All I'm saying is, this could all be a very innocent misunderstanding, or it could be a seriously damaged relationship. Consider if you are prone to mistrust because of your past; did someone cheat on you? You might need to come to terms with your own fears for the sake of your relationship. Consider his past. Has he cheated before? I am a believer of the "once a cheater, always a cheater" rule. Take care of yourself, and we are here for you as well!