Re: probably a stupid topic...
Likity - I wasn't trying to be counter-productive. I just want her to really take a hard look at the situation. I'm sure if she made out a list, she would probably come up with more "cons" than "pros" if she was really brutally honest about the situation. But I suppose she could just stay in a state of denial and a list would only help her justify why she stays in the relationship.
Purse - Please, please take my advice and take a really good look at the situation. If you truely believe that this guy is worth fighting for then you need to sit down with him and have a serious talk. If he refuses to listen and work on the relationship then RUN! If he really is good person, like you say he his, then he should be willing to try a little harder with your relationship. I really do wish you luck! Just remember what we have all told you, okay?
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