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Originally Posted by Jennifer
I am probably the worst person to give advice on this matter.. but here we go...
First I am sorry to hear about what your going through. If it were me I would sit down and ask "WHY"? He said "on purpose" to see how "insecure" you are? What a f'er (im sorry). But if my bf said to me that he added a bunch of girls only to see if they are interested in him, then I would take that as a hint that, you know, maybe he's just not happy in the relationship. Ask him what he really wants. Where he sees you guys in 3 years - 6 years etc. good luck  |
I totally agree with you! That's why I wanted her to say what it was that made her think this guy was so great. Because everything we have heard so far is what an a-hole he is and everyone is wondering why she is still defending him and tries to make it seem like its HER fault that the guy is a jerk. ::sigh:: Well obviously she knows deep down that this is not a healthy situation... otherwise she never would have asked us in the first place. I just hope she does the little exercise I proposed so that she can see that this guy has probably done more harm than good and that she needs to remove herself from the situation.