Okay... let's try a different approach. I want you to list all of the good things about your bf or wonderful things he has done for you. I want SPECIFICS here... don't be vague about it. Then do the same thing with all the bad stuff. Kind of like a pros and cons list. You have to admit... the way you have been describing him leads all of us to believe that the guy is a total pig. So I want you to prove us all wrong... and if you can't, then perhaps you need to start listening to us. Sound fair?
